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Stevlav
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09/27/15 01:08 PM


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Spiritual Connection Dominating My Life
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Hi, I'm hoping for some advice on a spiritual connection I have formed with someone which is dominating my life in a way I am finding uncomfortable.
It seems unusual to me, as though I have had a similar sort of heart connection with two people before, never has it been without physically knowing them, and never in such an intense way that they dominate me and interfere with my usual activities.
They seem to have complete access to me and though I have tried to block them out and make myself uninteresting, they always seem to find a way in, so after 3 weeks I am still no closer to distancing myself from them.
Any advice on how to deal with such things?

Thanks Stephen


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Shinsoo
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09/27/15 04:18 PM


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Re: Spiritual Connection Dominating My Life
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Hmm, sounds like a very strong connection you have there. Have you asked your guide(s?) to help you out and remove the connection? I had a very similar issue upon first awakening, felt very heavy, sad energies from a co-worker and asked my guide to sever the connection as it was making me feel drained.

If your guide cannot help you, then this person is most likely sent to you by your soul for a reason and you must deal with this person, as he/she will somehow benefit you spiritually.

"To Love Another Person is to See the Face of God" - Victor Hugo


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Stevlav
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09/27/15 06:29 PM


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Re: Spiritual Connection Dominating My Life
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Hi, yes sadly not sent to me I think, more of a chance encounter. Though your right it is a strong connection.
Normally I think its relatively easy to end this sort of thing, but she just wont give up, like the terminator of spiritual connections, nothing stops her.
At first it seemed like love, but that dropped away and now its like I'm trapped in an abusive relationship.
Possibly the 'spiritual lesson' angle is the only choice I have while she deals with whatever it is that makes her do this.
I never even new this was possible, that anyone could exert such a powerful influence over me totally against my wishes.
As for asking my spiritual teacher for help, that is useless at the moment. I have even temporarily abandoned my spiritual practice as that seems to be one of the things she likes about me.
Thanks


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Shinsoo
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Re: Spiritual Connection Dominating My Life
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You'd be surprised at how many 'chance' encounters are actually spiritual trials of some kind.

I'm not talking about your spiritual teacher, I'm talking about your spirit guide(s). They can only help you if you ask them, Spirit is big on the concept of Free Will. They might be able to give you some insight as to what's going on with you and this lady.

And you're welcome.

"To Love Another Person is to See the Face of God" - Victor Hugo


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Stevlav
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09/29/15 06:10 AM


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Re: Spiritual Connection Dominating My Life
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Hi, thanks for your replies.
I guess it will work out in the end.
I was freaking out about it as things were happening I really didn't want and I was scarily powerless.
But I have found a way to accept it and its not so invasive or intense now. The more I fought the worse it was.
It might even become something I like in time though its not something I would currently choose!
I suppose whether something is a spiritual challenge or an unwanted intrusion is a choice of which attitude you want to take. And when you can't wriggle out of it, the choice is made for you...


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