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Ultraviolet
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Hi everybody, I realised I posted my concerns on the end of somebody's thread. here are the two posts. thank you for reading.

"hey gugs, for a while i have debated this and this is my theory. we enter relationships with others according to where we are in our soul's development. i believe that the issues that we have and the complications that can arise mirror parts of us that are not yet complete. i am going through this myself at the moment whereby i believe this man is my twin flame but i am reminded by various others that i see the male aspect of me in him and until i can own it i will not be complete. but my heart sighs because i feel i DO own it as my male and female energies feel pretty balanced. i like what was said earlier regarding the bond 'how do you know whether the connection means you're meant to have a relationship or whether it's a lesson to be learned' (sighs) i feel so strongly for him i feel he is my King/gentleman and I am his princess/young lady. if anyone could shed any light for me on this matter i would be most grateful. i wonder if i am meant to be with him. thank you for listening guys

please is someone able to respond to my above post. the energy between this man and myself is like glue. i am deeply attracted to him. i feel like we are part of eachother. there's a spiritual magnatism between us, i don't know if we both have lessons to learn from each other, whether he is a guide or soulmate, if it's meant to be or not. i'm unsure as to what i'm meant to take from this but the energy between us is intense and it hurts me if i get too close with him. if you'd like me to provide any more info i will, thank you for reading x"






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Gerrit
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Hello Ultraviolet,
I agree that often we see things mirrored in others, especially when there is something we don't like about that other person, we should ask ourselves, why does that bother us so much - why don't we just let it go. If it resonates, we should investigate, why that is - what is the lesson to be learned.
Regarding male and female energy, I can relate to that, as I feel that my male and female energy is quite balanced - as I am not dominated by my male energy, some women have described me as being "not male enough" - while I believe, most women are not used to energy balanced men, as most have their male energy well dominating, while suppressing the female energy. But that aside, of course I do not know you both well enough to be able to see if this is meant to be a relationship or just a learning experience. I for myself have met who I believe to be my twin soul, but as she did not agree that we are twin souls, this never worked out to be a relationship. I hope you have more luck!


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Serenity01
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Ultraviolet, why not just take it day by day to see how this relationship develops? Not knowing you both personally, it's hard to make a judgement.


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Shinenz
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Is it possible you could let it takes it's course, as opposed to dissecting it too much. I don't mean that in a negative manner, and i havn't met you. But from what you have said, it sounds like you have inner turmoil of really wanting this, yet afraid to dive in fully from fear of uncertainty. Sometimes in life, its ok to not know the answers to complexities we face, and let the course develop and present itself to us. Time will tell you, your answers. For now, just "be" and enjoy, you both sound wonderful together

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to ones courage


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Mathew
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11/08/13 05:45 PM


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G'day Ultraviolet

First of all I would like to suggest reading a certain book, it's a small book to read but very informative for people who are spiritually aware. The book is titled CELESTINE PROPHECY by James Redfield.

The book will guide you through, it actually reads like a novel.

You have some very good advice here, just go with the flow & relax & let the energy flow naturally.

Love
Mathew

Acceptance of all leads to true spiritual awareness.


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Ultraviolet
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Thank you everybody for your replies.
I saw him today and I told him how I felt, again.
I'm attending AA and NA and have been sober for 4 and a half months. I met him there. I am a passionate spiritually-minded left-handed creative thinker. I love art, music, natural food: I believe I am Pleiadien.
I felt trapped, supressed and blocked drinking alcohol and smoking pot etc. I got involved in confusing, negative, sometimes violent relationships. It is my desire to have individuality and creative expression.
I have known this man for about 3 years and we kept exchanging eye contact at meetings. There are people I feel drawn to in these meetings and feel they are on the same page as me but I feel profoundly for this man. He is married and has a daughter. He is 47. I am 29. He is Aquarian and I am Gemini.
When I told him how I felt not so long ago I asked him whether I was deluded (perhaps meaning if he feels the same way). I know there's an attraction between us. His response was something like "whatever you think creates your reality, develops into an entity". It makes me love him more. He works with renewable energy, he is philosophical, soulful, romantic, softly spoken, individualistic, intellegent, compassionate, charming and has lovely seductive qualities (and tall lol) I love tall men. I feel he is Arcturian.
I'm not sure whether this is me just making it up and wishing it to be true or whether I am receving direct intuition as to the nature of him. I said to myself that he is the one for me, there is something about him that I feel devoted towards and I do not desire for a greater love than the one I feel with him. I am truthful and honest within my actions this is why I share like this with him. Again if anyone may help me or guide me knowing a bit more about the situation I would be very grateful. Thank you all for your time in reading this. With love, Becky x

Edited by Ultraviolet on 11/09/13 09:26 AM.




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Ultraviolet
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Re: looking for advise
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bla bla bla lol God i do go on!!! I'm gonna leave it there. thanks for all replies xxx


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